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27 December 2008 @ 11:37 pm
RL stuff  
I have news I'm not sure if it's great news though. I just found out that my husband just now was able to forgive me for my lj reading and writing. It took over a year for him to get over it. *WOW* That's a long time. Some of you remember my very early post about my husband finding out about my journal etc. He was mad and upset to say the least. I wonder what I should feel about this happy or worried? I'm also concerned that he could hold onto the anger for this long.
Saurasaura_ on December 28th, 2008 12:36 pm (UTC)
It took him long, indeed!!! What you read and write is part of who you are. He should have known earlier, yeah, but that doesn't mean it makes you any different from the woman you were before he knew. He shouldn't have been angry, but even if he was, he should have talked to you about it and (you're right) not hold on it for so long. But I'm glad that he is cool with it now (you did nothing, there's nothing to forgive, is it!?)

I'm very fortunate Hubby was there with me the whole process. I don't think I'll be able to keep a secret like this from him. But still, I've been double fortunate that he has always respected my choices.
lijahloverlijahlover on December 29th, 2008 07:18 am (UTC)
Oh he told me how angrey he was from the start but I had no idea how long he took to let it go finally. That's a graet husband you have there. :)